Sunday, December
15, 2024
I have an
important post for you that I would like you to read very carefully so
as not to inadvertently cause any confusion. Since I report the
activities of all four of our Mayor dogs here under Mayor Max, I am
now letting you know this:
Mayor Max the
Third, Vice Mayor Meadow, and Deputy Co-Mayor Mitzi are all fine and
well. However, our beloved Deputy Co-Mayor Mikey is now in Heaven.
Mikey was 11-1/2
years old and doing well. However, a few weeks ago, he did become a
finicky eater and didn’t want to eat his regular food. For a few
days, all he wanted to eat was bread.
I took Mikey to
the vet, and they put him on antibiotics, and he was switched to a
digestive care prescription diet. He loved that food and gobbled it
right up. He did not have a fever or any other signs of illness, but
his white blood cell count was elevated so they treated him for
infection. Since he returned to eating normally and seemed fine, I
thought the crisis was over.
However, as what
happened with Mayor Max the Second, Mikey could not get up when we
went to feed him his dinner. My husband picked him up and rushed him
to the 24 hour emergency veterinary hospital in Temecula. Mikey passed
away upon getting to the clinic an hour away.
The vet
examination conducted after Mikey‘s passing showed that Mikey passed
away from the same illness and cancer of the spleen and liver that
caused the death of Mayor Max the Second in July 2022.
Mikey was
vibrant, active, alive, playing, retrieving balls, etc., right up to
the last day of his life. In fact, many of you saw posts I have made
recently about the vibrant health of my two senior dogs, Mitzi and
Mikey, and how well they are doing. I even thought they would both
live for many more years because they were doing so well.
As you can
imagine with the loss of a pet, we are devastated and heartbroken at
this time. But it gives us great joy bringing the Mayors out in
public, so we will be continuing that at our regular schedule resuming
on Thursday this week.
As many of you
know from my posts, I believe in past lives and future lives. I
believe our pets come back to us. I believe that Max, Mitzi, and Mikey
have all been my pets before their current form. I believe that Meadow
is a new dog for us.
I knew Mikey was
going to go to Heaven when I saw him in that condition so my last
words to Mikey were my telling him that I love him, to come to the
house and inhabit Mitzi so they could continue to be together in the
form of a combined Mitzi with Mikey, and that would make Mitzi happy
to feel his presence, and it would make us happy to feel his presence
as well. I told him, when the time is right, we will get another dog
to bring him back into our family.
I thanked him for
being a part of our family and that we have been through this before,
and we will always want him with us.
Since Mikey‘s
passing, I have perceived his presence at the house, and I believe I
have seen Mitzi perceive his presence as well.
Max, Meadow, and
Mitzi all seem to be dealing very well with Mikey’s passing compared
to my husband and myself. But I do find it comforting to feel
Mikey’s presence at the house, and it makes me smile when I perceive
it.
It is often hard
for me to know in the spiritual universe what is real. I am so used to
the physical presence where I can see my dog with my eyes.
From all the
things I feel, I believe Mikey is alive and well in the spiritual form
hanging out with us at the house, and several times, things have
happened to let me know that.
Sometimes, Mitzi
is now doing the things that Mikey would do. When I see that happen,
it actually makes me smile quite a bit because it is somehow so funny
to see it happening. I feel like Mikey is telling me that he is
here, and it is OK.
When I see
someone else’s dog, the dog seems to know I am grieving and comes
over and looks at me. But the dog looks at me in a different way where
I’m thinking, Is that Mikey? And then I think it is, in an odd way,
and I get to hug my Mikey in the form of that other dog. I kind of
feel like Mikey is following me around, and when there’s a dog, he
somehow jumps into that dog and then that dog is looking at me as if
it’s Mikey, and Mikey is saying hello. I know it’s odd but it’s
happening. I find this extremely comforting. It could just be that the
dogs immediately perceive grief and know what to do. Either way,
It’s helpful.
In fact, I was on
my walk today, and a neighbor walked by with his dog. It’s a vicious
dog, and it always lunges at me to bite me. But the neighbor holds the
dog tight on the leash, and I have never been bitten, and I know not
to get close. Today, for the first time, that dog did not lunge at me
or try to bite me or even bark. I heard the owner saying, “good
girl, good girl,” to his dog.
Thank you for
your understanding when you witness that I am a bucket of tears at
this time. It’s probably best not to bring it up. I prefer not to
cry in public. I have often wished I were more like a man that way.
But I won’t
bring it up out in the public unless I am asked. And if I am asked,
you will see my sadness.
It has been my
experience that the grief does lessen over time. On any day, I can
still cry over the loss of loved ones, but I am able to eventually
move on from this intense grief and then miss them, but not in a way
that it destroys my life forever. It is very difficult for us right
now.
I apologize for
causing any upset at this time. I believe in only creating positive
uplifting communications to elevate the spirit. I considered holding
off on this announcement until after the holidays, but I decided to
make the announcement any way because my heart is not letting me hold
back.
Mikey was a
wonderful dog. He was so upbeat and enthusiastic and cute and playful.
He loved belly rubs and was known in Idyllwild as the belly rub boy. I
could ask him if he wanted a belly rub, and he would immediately roll
over and get his belly rub. I love that he would do this on command of
my asking the question. That always pleased people so much to see that
he perfectly understood the English language. I would also quip that
my dogs are the only politicians in the world that will close their
mouths on command. I would then hold up a treat and ask Mikey to close
his mouth, and he would do it flawlessly.
Because Mikey
liked belly rubs so much, he was often lying down when out in the
public. I used to always say he was undercover as a lazy dog, but
believe me he’s watching. Sure enough, if a dog went by, Mikey would
pop right up and start barking. He was very alert and always watching
everything.
He along with his
sister Mitzi are known as the head of security and the bodyguards for
the Mayor. I came up with that idea when they started acting like
guard dogs if a dog walked by. I thought it was funny, and it just
sort of stuck. I also like the idea that the Mayor and Vice Mayor have
a security detail. I think I will keep up that tradition.
Mitzi is now the
head of the security team and will carry on this job solo. Mitzi,
being the alpha dog of all four of the Mayors, is up to the task with
no problem.
I have included
some of my favorite photos of Mikey here. My all-time most favorite
photo of Mikey is what I call the Rambo in the Reeds photo. We lived
on a property for 4 1/2 years that had a pond. Mikey liked to hide in
the reeds and spring out unexpectedly. I saw him hiding in the reeds
one day and took this photo. I always loved this photo so much I
wanted to make it the cover of one of the calendars, but I didn’t do
it because I thought it could be scary for some children to look at
this picture. So I just posted it periodically.
In the 2026
calendar, I will do a tribute to Mikey and certainly include this
photo as part of it. Those are my thoughts at this time.
Because I believe
that positive energy leads towards life, and negative energy goes in
the opposite direction, I’m sorry if this post causes you sadness.
On the bright side and the positive side of it, Mikey graced our
lives with his presence for 11 1/2 wonderful years. He was as perfect
a dog as any dog could ever be. He brought nothing but joy to our
lives, and I believe Mikey will bring joy again. I also believe he’s
keeping Mitzi’s morale very high at this time by hanging around in
the spiritual space wherever she is, whether in the house or on the
deck. He is there with her and this just gives us great comfort.
The 2025 calendar
was already on press for printing when Mikey went to Heaven. I should
have calendars Christmas week. Through all of 2025, you will get to
see my lovely Mikey throughout many months of the calendar.
We hope you find
the calendar to be an extraordinarily lovely and happy experience for
you all year long as it is for us. Every single picture of my pets,
past or present, brings a smile to my heart and elevates my spirit on
every day and every night.
That is my
intention for you as well, to elevate your spirits and increase your
happiness and well-being on every day of your life.
Love always,
Your Dear and
Devoted Friend Forever,
Phyllis Mueller
Chief of
Staff for the Mayors of Idyllwild
Mayor
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